melmel brought up an interesting point in another post. I have a job, I have a career, I'm trying to get a promotion. Unexpected bowel movements and anal leakage will not further my career any. However, losing weight will (heavy people are regarded, sometimes subconsciously, as lazy and not too bright).

Suddenly I'm thinking adult diapers at work. Will they show? Will it still be obvious what happened? How well do they work?

How humiliating that would be. Something I didn't expect to encounter until my 70's, at least.

I tell you I would feel silly buying and wearing adult diapers. However, it may be a lot better to do that than deal with having an accident at work, especially if you feel your career would be damaged.

Ugh, what an awful thought. But I can see that it must be a good idea. I wonder if they make adult diapers big enough for me. And do I have any really full skirts to wear?